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August 5, 2009

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Relax… It’s Just Sex

by Franz Patrick


Relax… It’s Just Sex (1998)
★★★ / ★★★★

This movie, written and directed by P.J. Castellaneta, about people with all sorts of sexual orientations is far from perfect but I couldn’t help but enjoy it. I thought it was nice to see people just being people without having to be afraid of offending its audiences. The cast is led by Jennifer Tilly whose friends mostly consists of gays and lesbians. Tilly juggles three fronts: her need to constantly have sex because she wants to have a baby before her eggs “expire” (done in hilarious ways, I might add), trying to be supportive of lesbian friend (Cynda Williams) who recently broke up with her almost decade long lover (Serena Scott Thomas) because she fell for another man, and consoling her gay friend (Mitchell Anderson) because he’s depressed that he’s not (or been in) any stable relationship. Although there were very funny moments, especially in the first half, my favorite scene has got to be the dinner conversation on whether HIV really causes AIDS. That scene constantly evolved not just topic-wise but because it showed us the many personalities of each of the characters and how they dealt with the situation whenever they were confronted by others. It felt so real; I have many memories with friends who have varying opinions when we talk about certain issues and some of those times do get to the point where somebody has to yell, “Shut up!” before the discussion got out of hand. That scene made me feel like I was sitting at that dinner table so I thought it was very powerful. I think the title of this picture is very misleading because sex is not the central issue. It’s really more about relationships and how such relationships are defined by people who are directly involved with a particular issue and those who are in the periphery. The only thing I didn’t like about this movie was it’s all too gloomy second half. I was very impressed that it was a comedy and offered a plethora of insights but it became more typical with the serious dramatics in the second half. This is a small movie but the writing is very funny because it features a lot of colorful straight/gay/lesbian/bisexual people. For me, it wasn’t at all difficult to connect with it.

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  1. Hillz
    Aug 5 2009

    Really? I thought the second half being more dramatic was necessary because it was so funny during the first. My favorite scene is when Jennifer Tilly’s character Tara, was being interviewed after she lost the baby, makes me cry everytime! Great Movie!!!

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  2. Aug 6 2009

    I haven’t even heard of this movie but after reading your review I’m going to make sure I see it. It sounds interesting and I love Jennifer Tilly. She’s fun and quirky and I can totally see her in a role like this.

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  3. Aug 7 2009

    Hillz: I felt as though it didn’t have to be dramatic because when it’s funny, it’s REALLY funny. Plus, the syrupy melodrama slowed the picture’s momentum, I felt. A movie doesn’t need to be sad to exude heart.

    Paula: I hope you enjoy it. I forgot how hilarious Tilly can be.

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  4. Sep 7 2009

    Really? I thought the second half being more dramatic was necessary because it was so funny during the first. My favorite scene is when Jennifer Tilly's character Tara, was being interviewed after she lost the baby, makes me cry everytime! Great Movie!!!…

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